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Thursday, December 13, 2012

even the most handsome prince charming.

I think nearly very little girl dreams of prince charming. 
He is tall, dark, and handsome. He rides up on a white horse. He rescues you from danger. He is faithful to you alone. He is always kind and gentlemanly. He is so amazing (not to mention handsome), he takes your breath away. He is perfect. And he fulfills all your dreams. 

Say it with me, ladies - "Awwwww." 

Perhaps you are still waiting for your "prince charming" and saving your heart for him.
Maybe you're dating or engaged to your prince and he is just wonderful.
Or possibly, you're happily married to the man of your dreams. 

Ladies, regardless of where you are in your girlish heart's quest for "the prince", I want to remind us all of something I've been thinking about - while real life love stories are beautiful, God-written romances are ever so worth waiting for, and while marriage is a precious blessing - 

no man can ever fill the place in your hearts 
that longs for that perfect prince to come and rescue you.

I love these words...

"Even a beautiful God-scripted love story can never satisfy the way Jesus does. Even the most heroic and Christlike man on earth can never fulfill the longings of our heart like the true Prince and lover of our soul (Jesus Christ). And until we are able to truly make Him our first love, until we are willing to give up our dream of an earthly love story for His sake, we will never know the fullness of Him who fills us all in all. We will always be looking to a mere man to meet the desires of our heart, rather than to the One who created us, who knows us better than we know ourselves, and who gave His very life's blood to rescue us."
-Leslie Ludy


May you and I remember this.
Your husband may be wonderful and dreamy.
Your boyfriend may make you swoon.
The future husband you hope for and pray for will truly be a man among men! 

But.... no human can ever take the place of Jesus in our hearts.
We cannot be the perfect wife or girlfriend or woman. 
And no man can be the perfect husband or boyfriend.
Only God can fill that void in our hearts.
And when that void is filled with His unconditional love?
Why, there's lots of room for giving and receiving
 romantic love from the one He has chosen for us.

And how beautiful is that?

Embrace your Prince Charming, Jesus, today.
He loves you like no one else can!!

Love your sister on this journey of chasing Him,



linking up here 


  1. I'm still waiting for "the prince"! Thanks so much for sharing this quote from Leslie Ludy and your thoughts. I appreciate the encouragement!

  2. Thank you for this, Erin. Sometimes I lose track of the Lord and how He is the priority and fulfillment in life. Such a lovely post to remind me of the important things in life!
    Happy Thursday <3

  3. Beautiful Beautiful post! I think we all get caught up in the idea of the "perfect man" sometimes and this is a great reminder that no one person is perfect and all we need is a love in a deeper spirit to make us whole!

  4. I love Leslie Ludy. Her books forever changed my heart and life, particularly Authentic Beauty. It will forever be in my testimony. I fully believe without her heart for purity and teaching young women, I would not be who I am today or where I am today...Or possibly not even married to my earthly prince. Her words have forever shaped my ministry and I taste them in your writings too. Thank God for women like Leslie and women like you, Erin! You truly are a blessing to so many young women. Keep shining :)

  5. Love this so much. It is so so true, some something that is so easy to lose sight of.

  6. I needed to hear this so much today. Thank you for sharing your beautiful heart.

  7. This is all so true. One of the biggest mistakes I could ever make as a married woman, would be to expect my husband to love me the way God does. As wonderful as he is, at the end of the day, he is just a human and God is...well...GOD! It would be unfair for me to expect my husband to always be everything I want him to be. Only God can complete me.

    Great post!

    Ashley Flores

  8. Yes, yes, yes to every word of this post! As I wait for God to script my love story, I remind myself of this truth every day. I know my "man among men" will be oh so worth the wait, BUT he will never satisfy me...just like I will never be able to fully satisfy him. It would be wrong of me to place those expectations on him! Only Christ fulfills.

    Thank you for the encouragement, Erin.

  9. Lovely post! The truth is, Prince Charming doesn't exist. At least, not in the ways we dream of. As a married woman, I can attest to the fact that being married isn't always a bed of roses. It is wonderful, but it's also hard. When you have two fallen individuals trying to live life together, it's bound to get a little rocky from time to time. But, when I focus on Jesus, who is Prince Charming if there ever were one... When I fall in love with Him, then my husband doesn't have to shoulder the burden of meeting needs that he was never meant to meet.

  10. so sweet! i pray nightly for godly princes for my daughters :)

  11. So, true, Erin! I've been married for almost 26 years and have had many thrills and joys in loving my husband, but my love for my Lord still fulfills my heart beyond any joy that my husband has brought into my life! Thanks for stopping over at my blog and following! I also have enjoyed reading your adorable blog and am following you back! :)
    n His Lo♥e, Ann @ Christ in the Clouds

  12. Erin, this is just what I needed to hear. So humbling. This is truly something I struggle with– learning to let Jesus be my number one at all times! I hate to admit that I turn to Matt so many times to fill the longings of my heart, but you're right, Jesus is the ONLY one who can do this! Amen :)

  13. so important! i think this is something we need to even MORE when we enter into relationships! jesus must always be at the center!

  14. Beautiful and inspiring post! :) Thank you for your heart-felt words. :) YES, truly none can compare to the love of Jesus for us! :)

    Your newest follower,

  15. ERIN, i love this. amen,amen, amen!!!

  16. ERIN, i love this. amen,amen, amen!!!

  17. (saying it with you) awwwww. :)
    loved this, sweet friend. love your heart!


  18. Been reading through your blog...and YOU are sweetness itself! #ForReals

    Thank you for not only visiting but also commenting on my blog so I could find you too! I love your heart and your passion and your FUN! I think you are a kindred spirit! Funny how one knows these things!

  19. Hi There!!!! I'm Hanna. LOVE your blog and I love making new friends!!!! I am your newest follower:)I found you on wonderful Casey's blog "on your heart" post!!! HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!! You can find me anytime at

    xoxoxo Hanna

  20. The Lord def has blessed us more than we know, and we def need to keep him in our hearts & be thankful daily! You & your blog are just LOVELY!!! You really are an inspiration & I am glad that you found mine because it brought me to yours! :) I look forward to more of your inspiring posts! Have a blessed day!

    your new friend,
    Shio :)

  21. Thank you for stopping by my blog, Erin! You are too kind.

    I love your attitude and this post is so true. I'm a happily married woman of 17 years, and a born-again Christian. Years ago I heard a sermon that women need to not expect their husbands to fill the void that only God can fill. It was an eye-opener for me.

    Only Jesus gives perfect love and when it's free why do we look for it elsewhere?

    Have a great weekend!

  22. Thank You for this Erin. You are always so insightful. I admire you completely.

  23. Thanks for stopping by my blog. I'm so glad you did as now I found yours. What a beautiful post! I completely agree and love that you shared it with us.

  24. Your posts always encourage my heart so! I still haven't found my earthly "prince" either, but I am so thankful that we have the one that can truly satisfy our hearts desires! Thank you for the post, Erin! :)

  25. I LOVE this, Erin. Such great thoughts in such a timely manner in my life.
    Leslie's quotes are so inspiring...


  26. what a sweet post<3 Im so glad I ran into your blog!

  27. such a beautiful make jesus sound cool and modern, not in the ancient robes he wore :)

  28. What a great reminder for those of us who are married to expect perfection from the one and only who is perfect!
    Keep up the God work.

  29. Sweet post! Thank you for the reminders, Erin! Blessings to you:) Julie

  30. Amen! I am so encouraged by this as I enter into my last few months of being engaged. I always want to remember who my first love is and keep my priorities in Christ. Only HE can truly satisfy me.

  31. I love this post so much! It is so true! Thanks for sharing Erin. You are wise beyond your years. <3

  32. Lovely write up..and so in love with your blog..:)
    Well I believe I already found mine.:) Dream came true..yay.!!


  33. Hello Erin! I wanted to pop over and say hi and thank you for your wonderful comment on my guest post on Nicole's blog.
    Also I found my prince charming seven years ago! :-)



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